This exaltation of all things manly forces those of us who don’t necessarily fit within those rigid gender constructs to make one of two choices: rebel or conform. I’ve tried both and I can say from experience — it takes a real man to be a queen….
So there’s this guy that I like that I’ve been messing with. And then a week ago it turned into a scandal when he slept with one of my friends who’s been after him this whole time.
Obviously the friend and I are pretty much done, but as far as the guy he seems to be trying hard to make it up to…
Are you and the friend done because the friend isn’t remorseful or what?
Can you honestly just be friends?
Do you just need time/space? It is okay to ask for that.
You can both not feel anger towards someone and not invite them into your life/space. Those things aren’t mutually exclusive.